The 3 Month Threshold

When I was just starting my journey into tech, I stumbled across another developer who’d only got their job in 3 months.

I was like okay, I can do that. I can make that transition.

Three months passed and I didn’t.

I was devastated. I had worked diligently, studied nearly everyday. I asked questions, I watched tutorials and I built projects.

And it wasn’t enough. I thought that because I didn’t achieve what that person accomplished, my efforts were for not.

But then an epiphany hit me.

I didnt’t know their story. I didn’t know what they’ve been through to get there.

So, I had to stop comparing myself to to others.

Just because someone else achieved their goal in a certain timeframe doesn't mean I'm a failure. I needed to focus on my own progress and keep pushing forward. So I continued to study, learn from my mistakes, and improve my skills.

Repeat the process and sprinkle in some interviews along the way and rejections along that way.

It went on like that for almost two years until I finally got that yes. My journey into tech had begun and I could say that I broke into tech but here is what I want you to take away from my struggle.

It's important to remember that success is not always measured by how quickly you achieve your goals, but by the effort and growth you put into the process. Each person's path is unique, and comparing yourself to others can be discouraging. Instead, focus on your own journey and celebrate your progress along the way.

I shifted my focus to my own growth and improvement. I set small, achievable goals for myself and celebrated every milestone I reached. I rewarded myself by going out to eat or just taking small breaks. I acknowledged that progress takes time and that each step forward, no matter how small, was a step in the right direction.

I also learned to embrace failure as a learning opportunity. Instead of seeing setbacks as signs of my incompetence, I saw them as chances to learn and grow. I analyzed my mistakes, sought feedback, and made adjustments accordingly. I updated my resume numerous times, I optimized my LinkedIn and conducted mock interviews with my family. This mindset shift allowed me to approach challenges with resilience and determination.

It's important to remember that success is not a linear path. There will be ups and downs, moments of doubt and frustration. But it's during these challenging times that our character is tested and our determination is strengthened. By staying committed to our goals and believing in ourselves, we can overcome any obstacles that come our way.

In conclusion, success is a personal journey that is unique to each individual. Instead of comparing yourself to others, focus on your own growth, celebrate your achievements, and continue to strive for greatness. With dedication, perseverance, and a positive mindset, you will create a path to success that is uniquely yours. Don’t let a timeline control your sense of self. No matter if it takes 3 months, a year or more, your journey is yours.

Remember that.

And you’ll be much happier!